Case Studies
Mary had reached a plateau in her business. She was doing okay but knew she could do much better. We soon saw that she was trying to do it all by herself. She had a fear of asking for help from leaders, from her team, from anyone. She had had some disappointments in her past and had basically created an invisible iron fortress around herself to keep that from happening again.
In keeping out the bad, she was also keeping out the good, which was holding back her business. After applying just one ultimate life transformation tool, she was quickly able to take down the iron wall and get others excited about helping her. Her energy was higher and her enthusiasm for her business came back. Next, we saw that she had some fear of making calls. We were able to clear that pretty quickly using one of my transformational tools.
Mary then was fully back on track and felt empowered to take her business to new heights. The blocks that had paralyzed her were no longer stopping her, and she was growing her business in a way that worked for her.
Jim wanted to either get clarity on his career direction or make things better at his current job. We uncovered the parts of his job that he enjoyed, but he strongly believed that he did not have the experience or credentials necessary to succeed in that field. After using a belief-shifting tool with Jim, he started gaining confidence in his abilities.
But he still had another belief in his way - that it was not okay to ask for help from others. He thought he had to do it all by himself, which was overwhelming. When he shifted that belief, Jim started networking with people he knew, a few of whom had opportunities for him on a contract basis. He started pursuing those and his confidence built even more, seeing what he really could do. He made a decision to start his own business in his desired field - something he never thought he would do, especially so quickly.
Now the fears are gone, he is confident in his abilities and already has lots of business on the books (about 2/3 of his goal for the entire year). He is just a few weeks away from quitting his day job and launching his business full time.
Ironically Jim recently took a behavioral assessment that showed he was low in what they called social skills. Basically Jim is an introvert.
When Jim told the test administrator that he was going into business for himself, this person told Jim he was doomed to fail because he would never get any business.
At first Jim was upset to hear this. But within 24 hours, he used some of the tools he had learned and saw that not only was Joe wrong (he had already sold a lot of business before even opening the doors), it was a valuable lesson not to put people in a box based on their personality or assessment scores.
In the past he would have moped about this for days or even weeks, but within 24 hours he had shifted himself out of that pity party and was able to see his own truth.
When I acknowledged Jim for this, he said, "I have the tools to help myself shift. That is something I never had before."
Every time I talk to Jim, he is upbeat and excited, happy and looking forward to going full time. Instead of feeling scared about money, he knows that he has what it takes to succeed and takes action towards that every week.
Judy stayed at home all the time and called herself a couch potato. She never went out, felt depressed, had no close relationships to speak of and was unhappy in her career. We made lots of progress over time in all areas of her life except her career. Judy had a lifelong interest in nutrition but always found reasons why she shouldn't do this or couldn't do it in a way that suited her.
She lost interest in uncovering her passion and was ready to settle for her current career, which was not really a good fit for her even though she made a lot of money doing it. I suggested she try using one of my ultimate transformational tools to look at the beliefs that were blocking her, and we uncovered a belief that "she was not good enough to play in the big leagues."
We cleared that belief and then uncovered another block, which was that she couldn't make space for her own life while in relationship with a significant other. After shifting these beliefs, Judy's interest in nutrition surfaced again, but this time she was able to see opportunities that did fit for her. She chose to go into wellness consulting and immediately signed up for a training program that she could take while still at her job.
And soon she was working with clients in her chosen field. She also created a wonderful long-term relationship, something she never had before. Now that she is pursuing a career that fits with her talents and interests, she has plenty of energy and new friends she likes to spend time with.
Jackie had really been burned in her last relationship and was feeling down on men. She didn't trust them, but wanted to try dating again. Once she started dating, all her old fears of being left surfaced again, and she found herself pushing her boyfriend away.
Once we were able to clear her old traumas using some tools, Jackie started trusting that things were unfolding perfectly in her relationship, and they did. She is not sure what the future holds for her and her boyfriend, but they thoroughly enjoy each other's company and recently went on vacation together - something that Jackie had always wanted to do with a partner.
If these transformations sound like magic to you, be assured that they’re not. Results happen because of a predictable process using tools that dissolve the underlying obstacles to success.
You could be the next case study!